A To Z On Ways Of Solving Marital Problems

Culled and revised jottings from a sermon from Pastor Gbenga Adeyemi of the

Mountain of fire and Miracles Ministries.

Sermon Date: Sunday, 19th June, 2016

@ MFM Araromi Southwest 58 Regional Headquarters

A TO Z ON WAYS OF SOLVING MARITAL PROBLEMS

There is no perfect marriage anywhere. Some men will prefer to interact with their neighbors, other people around them rather than their wife

v Marriage is not a man and three women, not a man a wife with man friend, not a man a wife and a girlfriend, it is a union between a man and a woman.

v Marriage is between two matured people, two forgivers in advance.

There is no marriage that doesn’t have any issues, no problem free marriage.

"Now the serpent was more subtle than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden? And the woman said unto the serpent, we may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden: But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die. And the serpent said unto the woman, ye shall not surely die: For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil. And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat. And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons. And they heard the voice of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God amongst the trees of the garden. And the Lord God called unto Adam, and said unto him, where art thou? And he said, I heard thy voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked; and I hid myself. And he said, who told thee that thou wast naked? Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I commanded thee that thou shouldest not eat? And the man said, the woman whom thou gravest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat. And the Lord God said unto the woman, what is this that thou hast done? And the woman said, the serpent beguiled me, and I did eat." {Gen 3:1-13}

HOW TO SOLVE YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS

v A - Approach God and tell Him what the problems are, instead of bringing a third-party into your matter.

v B – Briefly tackle the problems with God’s help.

v C – Create a conducive atmosphere to solve your problems

v D – Do not defend yourself, if you do so, the problems will escalate.

v F – Face the problems with maturity and be ready to apologize if necessary.

v G – Give yourself to God

v H – Handle your problems with care and disallow bitterness.

v I – Identify the roots of your problems.

v J – Jealousy is dangerous, do not allow it.

v K – Kneel down and pray together after resolving your conflict to prevent reoccurrences.

v L – Learn from the problems you have passed through. Only fool repeat mistakes.

v M – Meditate on the positive qualities in the life of your partner, not on the weakness.

v N – Neglect not your family altar. The family that prays together stays together.

v O – Open up to each other so that you can defeat your problems.

v P – Prayer, Patience, Perseverance will always overcomes problems.

v Q – Quietness is a quality you must love, wait for the right time to talk or reply.

v R – Recognize that Satan is ready to destroy.

v S – Study to promise of God and use it to tackle your problem.

v T – Trust in the Lord alone & look up to Him.

v U – Understand your partner and be a person of positivity

v V – Vacancy in your home, occupy it.

v W – Wasting resources is not allowed.

v X – X-ray every road Satan passes into your family.

v Y – Yesterday problem, solve it.

v Z – Zealously guide your tongue, your thought, and your actions under the power of the Holy Spirit.

PRAYER POINTS

1.    Oh lord my father, establish my home in the name of Jesus.

2.    Oh lord my god! Establish my feet in prosperity, in the name Jesus.

3.    Oh lord my god! Establish my family in prosperity, in the name of Jesus.

4.    My seat of greatness captured by the enemy be released by fire, in the name of Jesus.

5.    Any power that want me to repeat the mistake of parents, you shall not succeed, die, in the name of Jesus.

6.    Oh lord my god! Bless me indeed, in the name of Jesus.

7.    My father!!! And my god, arise! And visit every impossibility in my life, in the name of Jesus.

Seven Fold Amen with Faith!!!

Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen!

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